Example first message to send on a dating site

First and foremost we would like to stress the importance of proper spelling and grammar. Not only do misspellings and grammatical errors create a poor image, they have been shown to significantly decrease the chances of getting a reply to your first message. The same holds true for netspeak, such as ur , r , u , and ya . The study conducted by OkCupid showed that messages containing netspeak were responded to up to 26% less than those written with proper spelling and grammar.

Email: This may come as a surprise to you, but I’m going to make you wait to see the Family Jewels. Now, don’t get me wrong, it’s not because I’m ashamed of what I’ve got. I just figured you’d seen enough of those pictures from the other guys emailing you. How’s about instead of exchanging perverted pics, let’s talk about what we’re looking for in a partner over some drinks this weekend? My treat!


Example first message to send on a dating site

Example first message to send on a dating site



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